Why does anger make you look unhappy?
The last reason why anger is a disadvantage is that it "makes you look unhappy," especially when a woman is angry, and people around her may think, "She looks like she's having a hard time," "She must be lonely," or even think, "That person is so pathetic!" They may even think, "I feel sorry for this person." People who are easily agitated make themselves look pathetic.
Most people don't like to hang out with unreasonable, angry people who seem unhappy, but would rather spend time with cheerful people who seem happy. People who are angry think "I'm angry because of my work, it has nothing to do with my personal life," so they are even more angry, but emotions are closely related to work and life.
Showing emotions is an embarrassing thing to do, as if revealing one's weaknesses. I have an irritable friend who was so embarrassed by scolding his subordinates in front of others that he was distracted from everything he did for a whole week. Regardless of the reason for the argument or the other person's situation, once you realize "how others will see me" and "how could I have done such an embarrassing thing," people will be critical and disgusted with themselves. I heard that this friend would run to the restroom and look at herself in the mirror whenever she was angry after that.
On the contrary, there are also people who become angry because they don't want to be belittled and don't want people to think they are inferior to others. Some people treat newcomers and clumsy subordinates with contempt, venting their anger nonchalantly, saying things like, "Can't you even do this?", "Why do I have to do this?", "None of you can do this." and so on. For some reason, they always seem to be on top.
While people are quick to be lenient with themselves and strict with others, women who are angry know how to indulge themselves and discipline others. Women who take out their anger on people around them hope that they can get the empathy of others, but if others say, "You also have something wrong," they will most likely respond with "How can it be" or "I can't imagine you But if someone says, "You're wrong, too," they'll most likely respond with, "How could you?" or "I can't believe you would say that. This kind of person feels that he or she can deny others, but does not want others to deny him or her, so naturally he or she will be alienated by everyone. Everyone thinks he or she is the most lovable, and naturally does not want to be criticized.
People can clearly see the faults of others, but have a hard time seeing their own. When you feel like you are about to get angry in front of someone, think about how you look at that moment and get in the habit of seeing yourself as you see others. When you come back to yourself, you'll realize that the anger has subsided.
So, my friend, you are well on your way to enhancing your heart flow. Flow through a set of methods based on Eastern philosophy, aesthetics, and Feng Shui. You can wear jewelry that contains the following materials:
- Enamel
- Ebony
- Garnet
and the following Chinese Feng Shui patterns:
- Manjushri Bodhisattva
- Elephant
- Baoxiang
All of these patterns have a strong protective power and can enhance the energy of the jewelry, while choosing this group of traditional oriental colors:
A powerful group of lucky colors creates the heart flow for you!